Why do beautiful women date losers

Still I find myself not so successful with hot women. Sure I can seduce them, but its always an uphill battle. I think one reason is exactly this. Silly though, most of the hot women I date ask if i have an instagram account. There is also nothing obvious to fix about me either.

I guess my best bet is to be active and seek for that hot, young quality woman. Thanks for the couraging message! Cheers from Finland! Thanks for your comment! I can confirm this as well. Was talking to a woman for 6 months. Things were great at first but in the end, she hooked up with a married bi guy who cheats on his wife. So she became a sidechick. Puzzling but true. I finally came to my senses and moved on from her. Damn dude what an idiot woman. Stupid is as stupid does.

Feminism really hurts women. I can confirm every word of this. She spent a lot of time trying to tear me down and pick out invisible faults and in the end, I had to leave her because of it.

And the 50 year old is definitely her sugar daddy. Sugar daddy dating is the 1 form of dating now. Thanks for letting me know that I am not alone. I actually think that I keep hanging around this mess like a freaking pinyhouda. Toss satisfying sex into the mix, which builds chemistry, and an unhealthy relationship can quickly become a toxic one. That's because studies overwhelmingly show that men who possess the Dark Triad personality traits narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellism are adept at beginning new relationships.

They have a greater willingness and ability to compete with their own sex and, thus, mate more. Meanwhile, women tend to demonstrate dueling desires: a loving and committed partner and an attraction to men with darker personality traits, usually for the shorter term.

In other words, women's innate sexual selection comes into play — and strong women who are in touch with and confident in their sexuality may pay more mind to that. This story was first republished on Business Insider in July It originally appeared on Fairy God Boss.

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About Contact Privacy Policy. Facebook Instagram Pinterest. What's the deal? Share this article now! With the attitudes so often stated being perpetually single actually is a very attractive option. However, it did not work out for me :D I fell victim, not sure how, and I am very happy with my family. I also went from homeless to millionaire with some old fashioned hard work in the process, so there is that. The woman I love had to take me broke though.

So it not all B. In , what does any women brings to the table. What is anything special about them, just my 2 cents. I completely agree. Although i am financially stable, money really has nothing to do with a fulfilling relationship. By setting standards on money, your foundation will always be money. I just think that people have lost their gumption in life. They think that love is conditional money , hence why divorce is so commonplace nowadays.

I would never give a woman the time of day if money was a factor. Clothes on their back, food, a roof over their heads, and a work ethic are the necessities of life. I used to agree…when I was No thanks. Good on you! So to sit here on your pedestal and say all this is kind of intriguing.

Women are consistent at being inconsistent lol if that makes any sense. You girls forget the guy is more than just a free ticket to mooch off of. Of course I have everything but I just had to put my input in it. I mean obviously most of these non sense blogs are by women or gays because they are the only ones that would just there and type all this b. I only read the first paragraph but shit. I feel so sad for you. Why do men date sex workers like strippers?

Only the bottom of the barrel will tolerate such personal degrading and self loathing. Its not healthy and strippers wonder why they date deadbeats? Get a real skill and you might get some respect. Thank god I am married man. It shameful women has to stoop so low to fall for the oldest tricks on the books.

Wow this is a long comments section. A lot of you people think too much. It comes down to this with women dating losers. A great percentage of women will dismiss all those qualities they are looking for if the guy is good-looking and great in the sack. Just like men do that with hot women. Hi everyone, I dont know how did I came across this post, but felt need to input some info here. I do agree with some of the guys in the post.

Since some of you claimed young women go after bad guys or losers. Most nice guys I know wont go after seconds or even thirds. This is the reason why nice guys turned most of these type of women away.

A question to ask- Who in the right mind would want a wife who been around the block a few times? That question never gets old and has been asked so many times. The answer would be Self-respect.

It better to learn early not later. By going after dead-beat losers meaning giving up a chance to find a really nice guy later on. With that, is what causes Nice or successful guys to turn these women away. I dont think Family have anything to do on rather a guy would be a loser or Successful.

Modern Dating is by far the most vicious I ever seen. By the way, I am very happy to be with my wife who never been with other guys. Just my 2 cents here. Good luck finding an attractive woman that is a virgin in the US. Church girls are actually some of the worse here, and they generally do a better job of hiding it. I hope you are right. I understand from where your coming from. My wife and I got married young. Based on your comment is the another reason why many single men out there dont bother to date.

You need experience to be good in bed. Talk about a double standard here. Do you keep reminding yourself that you love your wife bc she has never been with anyone else? If only she has experienced other guys and then ended up choosing you bc you are the winner and a good lover but sadly she has no one to compare it with so she has no idea… imagine that. This type of thinking is the reason why dating is a mess today than any time before. Based on my past experience, non-virgins are non-starter when it comes to relationships and truest.

Not one non-virgins ever been honest or faithful. It no wonder why in US we have the highest divorce rate. There are alot of downsides being with non-virgins and you probably already know the downsides. There are no double standards here, this is personal choice i made. I have kids and I am divorced. My whatever you would call him is in rehab, no job, no car, no home, etc.

I prefer not to be associated with him. I know I can do a lot better. Will it last? Men and women are alike although at different times in their lives. Some day I will meet the man of my dreams. Does this make you a loser? Does that make you a loser? No that does not make you a loser. They see a guy who is clean and together, and sometimes I could sense the resentment and they only way I could stick it to them is to withhold my powerful sexuality and punish him for their uppity-ness of not being as confused, unsure and superficial as they are?

Stick it to the man. They want a boy toy. There was an article where a feminist professor said she would have sex with homeless men to ease their pain of being such underdogs. In other cases in Sweden in migrant camps some aid worker women have sex with the migrants or let them rape them, as charity.

They donate their pussy to the perceived underdog. Those women who prefer looser boyfriends are just milder versions of the above 2 examples. What is common: some kind of cultural leftist feminist thinking, anti-meritocracy.

Anti-meritocracy has passionate hate for successful people. So many women are attracted to leftism. Hello, deadbeat here. Never had a girl interested in me so where are all the deadbeat loving girls??? Most women in the old days were the very best of all and just look at how bad they really are today which tells the whole story right there alone. I hope your drinking on that night. This is a very old post and your replying to a 2 years old comment?

While she blows and screws someone else to get her nut off, all the while pretending to be a virtuous martyr in front of you. Mack for help regarding my Marriage issue. Hey, this comment is a bit late in coming; I only saw this article today July 15th.

If you follow the principles for living as a Christian, you may or may not get rich not the only goal in life but you will be a happier, more contented person, and more likely to find the partner you can live with and enjoy. Even if you are not ready to believe in God, seek out some older couples who have been around the block a few times eg.

The women get the worst of it. This explains a lot of what Sam is talking about when it comes to women dating losers. Ive given up on thsese women because they are so brainwashed.

I have to take care of myself and my family and the churches should be ashamed of their disgusting doctrines. The abuse was prevalent in schools as well. My own siblings and myself were told in our lousy public school that girls only have babies and cook.

Your life is nothing but changing diapers and cleaning up after an adult male who makes all of your decisions for you, because as they explain it, women are just too dumb.

One sibling was betrated and thrown out of a pre-engineering course, another was pushed out of science, and I was denied Advanced Placement courses despite exceeding all requirements. Religion is a cancer and it only helps those who want to be in charge. Everyone like me is taxed to pay for their needs so that they can just focus on what they want to waste money on. Trying to base such important decisions in life on a bunch of nonsense from desert savages makes about as much sense as calling a psychic hotline.

And yet, these women will sleep around with all different kinds of men every chance they get. How very pathetic. Men looking for a free ride are thinking the exact same way about how to get what they want that being as much as possible for nothing which is why going out specifically to meet men you meet losers. The good men are too busy having a life to go to things where nasty people are putting knives in each others backs, if youre serious about finding a good man you should be too busy to be a part of that too, the creeps will only turn you off men in the end.

My issue is my trust for women isnt there anymore …it takes two to tango but since we are focused on women here. I will say this. Its hilarious. They think that they wield some special power over men and think they should be pursued and loved and taken care of and all that…basically entitled, and put nothing into the relationship.

Even on match. Makes me just wanna run right up to them and say hello haha. Good luck to both sides we all need it. Just my take. Women love scumbags. Get tattoos. Pick fights. Learn how to lie like a champ. These are the keys to success with women. And by treat me well, I really mean neither reject, abuse, nor abandon me. For all my education, I had no idea what drove humans to make decisions love, fears, beliefs or what the major fears failure, rejection, abandonment consisted of.

Had I known these things, I would have chosen to be alone rather than waste my time with losers. Had I been life smart, I would have gotten counseling and opened my heart to a real man who was a winner. Had I known myself better-that is-know my true feelings and base my knowledge of them off of what I thought about, did, and dreamed of—rather than the lies I told myself—I would have lived my young adulthood radically differently.

I was better looking; in better shape; more muscled and heavier on the scale; more educated; better traveled; more responsible; and had a better personality. And I came from less. Go figure! Whenever we went out, people stared and, at times, even laughed. They ended up treating me like garbage and made fun of me quite frequently.

This turned into emotional and, finally, physical abuse. My self-concept was a train wreck given the highly abusive and chaotic childhood I had had. It turned me into a beautiful person and over-achiever, and I really regret not seeing myself in that light. If only I had had someone sit me down and discuss with me my self-concept…but no one cared enough. I used to do this too. Once u get them they start thinking well if I can get her then I can do even better BC it must be something about me that makes me so special.

Try what I did w my loser ex. He was very mean and ugly w me and controlling and unsupportive. Always rejected me and gaslighted me on a regular basis. Yes it was mean but he was abusive. His face dropped and all of a sudden the bad boy facade melted and he started playing the victim. I left him and have been happy ever since. I think to myself what was I thinking?! I gave him 6 years of undying loyalty BC I cared about him more than myself and I had little to show for it.

Those old guys have been around longer than u and know all the right things to say to charm you. Proceed with caution if u are dating any man that is more than years older than you. Oh, so older guys or a certain age group and age gap means they will use you and mistreat you, or they have bad intentions, and is why they are with a loser like you in the first place? Might as well say a certain race of men too are more mean people or are only savages out to get your poor little soul. Unfortunately there are so many very Mentally Disturbed Psycho Women nowadays everywhere us Good Men go since when we will try to start a Normal Conversation with a woman that we would really like too meet which she will start Cursing at us for No Reason at all.

Had it happened to me already and a friend that i know had the same thing happened to him as well about two months after me. So true about psycho women, I have this experience everywhere, you try to be nice and polite but get hammered and treated as crap. Whereas scumbags and deadbeats get their full attention even get laid instantly. Go figure. Yeah this shit is ridiculous. It makes the female sound so humble, settling down with a median paying job and a loved one.

In the world of love, I am a loser. This man requires some acknowledgement, any signal, something, anything that hints at a possibility. Perhaps I should be more direct.

With women I am acquainted with I do engage in banter, etc. I grew up thinking the same as most normal men. If you build it they will come. I built a good life great career, a growing side business that is profitable, enjoy good health and want for nothing except a normal girlfriend. I am at ease talking to anybody about anything. I can go to a party rare event and easily socialize. I can come and go as I please. There are very few if any truly available women.

Women come in a few basic configurations:. They feel wronged. I have no chance at all with these women because I might have a trait or two that remind them of their ex-husbands or fathers who they might hate very much.

These traits could be anything from a wrinkled shirt to my baldness. Busy: these are the women around my age that have given up and have thrown themselves into caring for their grandchildren. They think all men are the same. They also gulped the feminist ideology early in life but now find themselves looking for validation and comfort from other women in the same boat. She;s got orange peel all over her and her midsection is bulging.

Her expiration date is long past and she offers nothing to compensate like a nice home cooked meal, affection, compassion, or support. Insecure: I have a business partner who happens to be a woman. For some reason, partner conjures up sex regardless of the adjective. These women want to control everything about you. Conflicted: you would think at middle age and after all the feminist wars, sex is something to be enjoyed.

But not for a lot of these middle aged women. They would rather make the decision than suffer rejection. Dino, this is in regards to your post. I agree with how hard it must be to find any kind of partner due to past relationships and unforeseen circumstances.

I was in a relationship for 18 yrs. I always dreamed of being that girl that wanted to grow old with the man I had children with, have grandbabies and be happy. I was far from that. I had a beautiful son 9 yrs. He was born with a disability, he turned my life around. He is 19 yrs.

When my son started school full time I decided it was time to go back to work, I wanted my independence. I am a very independent and stubborn person, I will admit it. I am not unreasonable and I am very good listener to sensible. I bought my own house with a little help from my sister, my son and I were now on our own.

I stayed away from relationships for 18 months. I then met, a man younger than me at the establishment where we both worked. He was one of those guys that said all the right things and made me feel really good about myself. Especially after being in a so called marriage of never going anywhere or doing anything for myself.

He wanted to spend time with me and always had the right thing to say. I know, red flag there He also lived in a furnished basement suite with really nothing except his cloths. He only lived half a block away from me. He started coming over almost every night. He would mow my lawn, and we would talk for hrs. I was in a really good place financially.

I always had money in my pocket, I had a low mortgage, my car was paid off. He was making really good money as well. We dated for about 6 months then he said he could move in and help me out.

Things were great for a while, then things started to change. Maybe it was me that was changing. We have been together 10 yrs. Within these years I have always worked. I have taken care of my son.

Things started to change about 4 yrs. Its hard to explain just when it changed. He is very vacant when I talk to him. He has confessed that within the 10 yrs. He is consumed with pot and associates with bad company. He checks out other women, not just the occasional glance, the stare for 30 second look.

He watches porn. These are just some of the things he has done. It gets so much deeper than that. I would do it for him, I would enjoy it, but not every weekend and my holidays. I want to travel and see places. Walk on the beach holding hands and lay on the beach somewhere drinking fruity drinks. I am a hopeless romantic, I like supper by candlelight or just cuddling on the couch watching movies. We are now in dept. He has all the hunting gear.

Now this is the second time and as the saying goes, Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me. I am now in the process of a separation. I cannot handle the things he does now to drive me crazy and knows it. I have lost my trust in him.

Its draining! I now get anxiety attacks and my memory is not what it used to be, caused by stress. I am not going to say that this is all his fault, cause its not. I guess my point is…. Well…yes we are, but we get hurt and demolished inside.

We have all had our share of crap in our lives. We as women hold on to things for a long time. We are definitely made to think differently than men.

I wish that I could just let things roll off my back. But with that said, if the right guy came along and treated, and I will just speak for myself here, the way I need to be treated, I could work on seeing past all the crap that has happened in my life.

Yes, there will always be little things that will remind me of things that happened in my past. I do believe that with that right person those things fade in time.

Its all about understanding each other as well. I have always been one to say that everything we go through in life is a lesson.

I know from this lesson that my standards for myself are higher. I know that I will not try to make a man a better man or think that I can save him.